Saturday, August 1, 2015

Campus Relationship: Couple in school,Single at home.

I laugh anytime I hear how some guys and ladies live on Campus.
Forgetting that someone somewhere is working tirelessly for them τ̲̅ȍ
have a solid future. They live like there is no tomorrow. A yoruba
Proverb says "Igbeyin ni dun oloku ada" meaning,What is worth doing at
alll is worth doing well.
Misplaced priority is a big problem. Some fine ladies will leave their
homes,deceive parents that they are going back τ̲̅ȍ school or
resuming school. They
will collect money, for this handout,money for that textbook, from
their Uncle's,Aunt's and Parents only for them τ̲̅ȍ land in their
boyfriend's apartments.I pity them "Ola ni won a mo pe Satide ki shey
igbeyin Ose" meaning They will be
shocked at the end of the whole thing.
If you ask them,they will tell you they are engaged τ̲̅ȍ him.
Performing the role of house wife when the so-called
fiance is yet τ̲̅ȍ know their parent or pay their bride price. Let ♏me
shock you,most of these relationships end at the school gate. You
should ask yourself are you doing it for the money or for the
pleasure? The holy book
says "you shall know the truth and it shall set you free". Listen τ̲̅ȍ
voice. "Oro abo laso fun omoluabi, t'oba de inu e a di odidi"
meaning you only heed τ̲̅ȍ tell a person with good character
half/portion of what you want τ̲̅ȍ say;the discernment that
accompanies good character will ensure that this person gets the full
import of your statement.
Perhaps,you should do self examination and ask yourself these
questions,be sincere:
Where is this relationship taking me to?
» Why am I in school? »
Is this relationship contributing τ̲̅ȍ ♏your life positively?
» Am I not sacrificing too much for this
relationship?
Hooking up or camping with someone that doesn't have a future plan
for himself or herself is a huge waste of time.
Mo wi temi oº°,Alagemo ti bi ♏o e naa,ai mojo wa ku sowo e" meaning
I have given you what I have,what you make of it is
up τ̲̅ȍ you.
Thank you!
Primo

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